Find the breath, lose it, begin again
There is nothing to achieve here. A "good" session and a "distracted" session are doing exactly the same work.
- Sit comfortably, spine upright but not stiff. Let the hands rest and the eyes close.
- Take one slightly deeper breath to arrive, then let the breath find its own natural rhythm.
- Find where you feel the breath most clearly — the nostrils, the chest, or the rise and fall of the belly.
- Rest your attention there. Feel one whole in-breath, and one whole out-breath.
- When you notice the mind has wandered off — and it will — simply note "thinking", and come back to the next breath.
- No frustration needed. The noticing and returning is the meditation.
- To finish, let go of focusing on the breath, sit quietly for a moment, then open your eyes.