Turn toward the feeling, gently
Go slowly, and only as far as feels okay. If a feeling is overwhelming, it is always fine to open your eyes and come back to the breath.
- Settle in and take a few slow breaths. Let the body feel as supported as possible.
- Ask quietly: what am I feeling right now? Let the answer come as a felt sense, not just a label.
- Find where the emotion lives in the body — a tightness in the throat, a weight in the chest, a churn in the belly.
- Rest your attention there with kindness. You might silently say, "it's okay that this is here."
- Breathe alongside the feeling. Imagine making a little more room around it, rather than bracing against it.
- Notice it without needing it to change. Let it shift, build, or soften in its own time.
- To close, place a hand on your heart if you like, offer yourself a moment of warmth, and slowly open your eyes.