Lemon Dojo · Practice Sheet
Burnout
The Smouldering Wick
A pocket guide for tending burnout — not pushing harder, but learning what to put down.
01 · Ready reckoner
The wiser way to meet burnout
Four moves, in order. The whole practice on a single glance — return to it when you’re running on empty.
Name it honestly
Say the actual word — to yourself, to someone you trust. Naming it accurately is the first act of caring for it.
Subtract before you add
Resist fixing burnout with more. One meeting cancelled outright is worth ten optimisations.
Protect the recovery
Treat sleep, screen-free time and slow meals as load-bearing, not optional. Recovery is the precondition, not the reward.
Reconnect with why you began
Ask gently why you started this. Sometimes the way back is remembering — sometimes it’s admitting it has changed.
“Why did I begin this?”02 · Regulate first
In the moment
When intensity spikes, the thinking brain goes offline. Reset the body first — then the four steps above become possible.
When everything is too much
Permission to pause
Stop. Both feet down, three slow breaths. Ask: “What can I put down right now — even for an hour?”
Burnout eases when you subtract. Give yourself permission to set one thing down before picking anything up.
03 · Go deeper
Try this
A practice for when you have a few minutes to yourself.
The Energy Audit
10 minutes- 1
Draw two columns on a page: Drains and Restores.
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List the past week’s recurring activities and obligations under whichever column they belong in. Be honest, not aspirational.
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Pick one item from Drains to remove, reduce, or renegotiate this week. Just one.
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Pick one item from Restores and protect it on the calendar like a meeting you cannot miss.
04 · Reflect
Journal it
Three questions. Write into them by hand on the printed sheet, or type below — your words save on this device.
What is quietly draining me that I’ve been calling “just tired”?
What restores me — and when did I last protect it?
What is one thing I can remove, reduce, or renegotiate this week?