Lemon Dojo · Practice Sheet

The Burnout lemon

Burnout

The Smouldering Wick

A pocket guide for tending burnout — not pushing harder, but learning what to put down.


01 · Ready reckoner

The wiser way to meet burnout

Four moves, in order. The whole practice on a single glance — return to it when you’re running on empty.

1

Name it honestly

Say the actual word — to yourself, to someone you trust. Naming it accurately is the first act of caring for it.

2

Subtract before you add

Resist fixing burnout with more. One meeting cancelled outright is worth ten optimisations.

3

Protect the recovery

Treat sleep, screen-free time and slow meals as load-bearing, not optional. Recovery is the precondition, not the reward.

4

Reconnect with why you began

Ask gently why you started this. Sometimes the way back is remembering — sometimes it’s admitting it has changed.

“Why did I begin this?”

02 · Regulate first

In the moment

When intensity spikes, the thinking brain goes offline. Reset the body first — then the four steps above become possible.

When everything is too much

Permission to pause

Stop. Both feet down, three slow breaths. Ask: “What can I put down right now — even for an hour?”

Burnout eases when you subtract. Give yourself permission to set one thing down before picking anything up.


03 · Go deeper

Try this

A practice for when you have a few minutes to yourself.

The Energy Audit

10 minutes
  • 1

    Draw two columns on a page: Drains and Restores.

  • 2

    List the past week’s recurring activities and obligations under whichever column they belong in. Be honest, not aspirational.

  • 3

    Pick one item from Drains to remove, reduce, or renegotiate this week. Just one.

  • 4

    Pick one item from Restores and protect it on the calendar like a meeting you cannot miss.


04 · Reflect

Journal it

Three questions. Write into them by hand on the printed sheet, or type below — your words save on this device.

What is quietly draining me that I’ve been calling “just tired”?

What restores me — and when did I last protect it?

What is one thing I can remove, reduce, or renegotiate this week?