Attach one practice to one trigger
Choose a single trigger to start with. Two or three at once is how this stops happening.
- Pick something that already happens most days: the kettle, the lift, a red light, the walk to the car.
- Pick one small practice: three long exhales, or feeling both feet, or naming three sounds.
- Do that practice every time the trigger appears, whether or not you feel like it.
- Keep it short enough that skipping it would take more effort than doing it.
- Expect to forget. When you remember two hours later, that counts as noticing, which is the skill.
- After a week or so, add a second trigger. Not before.